The alloy cylinder reacts with the cast bellhousing causing it to seize. I’d suggest using a proper penetrating oil (not WD40) and allowing, say, a day for it to work. Freeing is then a matter of twisting and hammering until it works free.
The rear main seal is a rope type on the pre-crossflow engine and requires the sump’s removal and change of sump gasket too. Although it is possible to do this without removal of the engine, it is very awkward and the confined space makes mistakes more likely, resulting in further leaks. But I’d check that the sump bolts are all tight before doing anything else, and that the breathers are clear.